Top conversation starters for first dates


When it comes to first dates, it can be tough to come up with conversation starters. You don’t want to seem like you’re trying too hard, but you also want to make a good impression. Here are a few conversation starters that should help get the ball rolling.

Ask about their favorite things

Asking questions is one of the most important ways to learn, and one of the best ways to keep a conversation going. One of the easiest questions to ask is “What do you like doing?” This question can lead into many different topics: hobbies, interests, and even current activities. It can also be a great way to get to know a person. Are they excited to talk about their favorite hobby? Does it sound like they’re not interested in talking about it at all? Does it sound like they’re excited to talk about it? By asking this question, you can find out a lot about the person, and what they enjoy.

Talk about your favorite things

Make sure you also talk passionately about your own interests and guide the conversation to let your date know you’re not just going to be there to talk about how much you like Star Wars if they have zero interest in your favorite sci-fi fantasy! You want them to know that you’re interested in talking about topics they enjoy as well. This keeps the conversation flowing and helps keep the mood pleasant.

Compliment them

By complimenting them when they’re sharing something that you like, you can show them that their interests are important to you and they were right to share the information with you. It shows that you care about the topic and it helps build a bond between the two of you. “Wow, I’m so glad you’ve shared this information with me. It’s fascinating to know about the history of Star Wars!”

“I can’t believe how much you love Star Wars. I’ve always been a huge fan of science fiction and fantasy myself!”

Ask them about their day

It’s a great way to break the ice and get to know them better. Ask them how their day went or something that they want to share with you. This gets the conversation flowing and gives the other person an opportunity to talk about themselves. “How was your day?”

“I had a great time at the Star Wars Celebration today. I got to meet George Lucas and get his autograph.”

“That’s awesome! What did he say to you?” 

Don’t be afraid of this question.

Ask them about their favorite food

It’s a great way to find out about their culture.

“What’s your favorite meal to have for dinner?”

“We had pizza and watched Star Trek.” “That sounds good! What kind of pizza did you get?

Share something about yourself

If you share a detail about yourself you are connecting with the other person.

“I love to read, but I can’t seem to find a good book to read lately.” What “My favorite movie is Star Wars.” My

You can also tell them about your current job. “What’s your job?”

If you find that you have similar interests, ask them about their hobbies. “I love to surf too!” “That’s awesome!

Tell a joke

By telling a joke you are making a connection with the other person.

If you’re not a great joke teller, make sure you’ve thought about an unoffensive one to tell before the date. Blurting out “How do you know if a girl is lying?” “She’s looking right at you” as your joke to a girl you’ve just met may not be the best way to endear yourself to her!

Ask them how they feel about a topic

“Hey, how do you feel about the _____?” is a great way to get a conversation going. It gives you an opportunity to get to know them better and they can talk about something they are passionate about.

Share an opinion

Share your opinion on something you think they may be interested in to start a conversation. They may not agree with you but they will still be interested in hearing what you have to say. A lively debate on a topic that won’t alienate your date from you is a great way to form a strong connection on that first date.

Ask about their family

“Do you have any siblings?” This is a great question to ask on a first date since it’s something that’s typically not discussed. Most people have at least one sibling (if they don’t you can talk about their experience of being an only child) and you can learn about your date by finding out who their siblings are and having them talk about their family.

Conclusion

In conclusion, first dates can be nerve-wracking, but they can also be a lot of fun. By using these conversation starters, you can help ease the tension and make the date more enjoyable. So go ahead and give them a try – you may just find that you have a lot in common with your date. And who knows, you may even want to go on another date with them!